It is important to be truthful with yourself. It is valuable to be honest with yourself in what you are really wanting. Manifesting Desires and creating desired experiences are often negated when one is dishonest with themselves about what their true feelings are about said desire.
For example, if there is someone that you feel in your heart you desire to reconnect with, You may tell yourself, “I don’t care” and other similar things. When this sort of self talk occurs… stop. Ask yourself, is it really that you “don’t care?” Or is that “I don’t care” is just another wall and self protection mechanism?
Of course you care! If you did not care, you would not have had the feeling to begin with.
Don’t stifle yourself, you are worthy of all of your hearts desires.
Be honest with yourself about your true feelings. When you stop and be honest and take down the wall and/or release the self protection mechanism… you may instead tell yourself short simple statements. Such as:
“I would like to hear from so and so.”
“I would feel joyful to reconnect with so and so.”
To shift gears from negative self talk and to shift hurdles that you set up for yourself about any of the reasons you may habitually feed yourself about why something cannot or should not happen, occur or manifest, start with short simple statements about what you really want and how it would make you feel if said desire were to manifest. When simply stating what you really want and actualizing how that desire would make you feel, leave out any and all of the reasons and protective mechanisms on why it should not or could not be experienced.
For the benefits of positive manifestation, it is important to be honest with yourself so that you are sending out the correct signals to the universe. If conflicting vibrations are offered, you will negate your own desire.